What’s the best way to get over someone you love?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 01:21

You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.
You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.
Because you were just unlucky in love?
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Or because she doesn’t love you back?
Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.
Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.
Why can't we send flat Earthers to space and show them the shape of Earth?
Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.
Because only you LOVED?
Or because they’re happy without you.
Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?
It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.
Because you are in sorrow without them?
Have you ever secretly watched someone while they were doing something private?
~KSR
True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.
If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,
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If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.
Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.
Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?
Have you ever had a secret crush on anyone?
Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?
But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.
Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?
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Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?
Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?
You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?
I love getting tired of loving that someone though…
Because it hurts that they are not with you?
If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.
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